Family Strategic Planning: Developing Our Mission and Core Values
(This blog post will likely be part of a series about our family – how we do strategic planning, the foundation, and its impact.) Years ago, when I was leading Contegix, annual strategic planning was...
View Article10 Years with MS: The Obstacle is the Way
Ten years ago today, Courtney and I were sitting in a doctor’s office on pins and needles, despite already knowing what the doctor would say: “You are being diagnosed with multiple sclerosis.” This...
View ArticleWhy I Started Blogging Again: A Journey Through Parenthood
As a parent, our relationship with our children evolves constantly. Recently, I’ve found myself drawn back to blogging, and the reason is deeply connected to this ever-changing dynamic with my kids....
View ArticleWork-Life Balance Is Bullshit or A Lie
For the 2019-2020 fiscal year, I had the honor of serving as Learning Officer for my local YPO chapter. The Learning Officer is responsible for creating the theme for the year and creating a calendar...
View ArticleWhy Great Leaders (Are Like Coders and) Fall in Love with Problems
I have always had a fondness for problems. Scratch that. I love problems. I have always loved problems. It is a passion that has always been with me. It is probably why I fell in love with coding...
View ArticleMoving Beyond Cynicism: Harvesting a Non-Net Sum Zero Life
This blog post stems from a speech I delivered after someone read my blog post, “Net Sum Zero vs. Non-Net Sum Zero: Two Fundamental Belief Systems”. He reached out asking me to speak at his company’s...
View ArticleWhy Productive Friction Is Essential for Stronger Teams, Marriages, and Families
I am a firm believer in the power of productive friction and frequently discuss its importance with my teams. At its core, productive friction represents collaborative engagements that empower...
View ArticleThe Gift of Imperfection: Parenting Beyond the Myth of Infallibility – Hero...
I was raised in an era where parents were revered as paragons of perfection. I distinctly recall asking my mother if she, like the Pope, possessed a ceremonial hat signifying her infallibility....
View ArticleHow A Lawsuit Forced Me To Be A Better Leader (and Less of a Dick-tator)
One of the most significant benefits of completing the Contegix transaction is the newfound freedom and space to reflect on our early days openly. Revisiting some memories can be uncomfortable and...
View ArticleConflict Avoidance? Nope, It Is Actually Ignorance & It Damages Relationships
In the past few weeks, the topic of avoiding conflict has come up more than once with people I coach or advise. Different people. Different contexts. Same theme. I am taking this as a sign to write...
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